Doaku hanya untuk-Mu

6:29 PM

Ketika aku terdiam, Kau membantuku merangkai kata-kata
Ketika aku ditengah kegelapan, Kau selalu menerangi hatiku
Ketika aku terjatuh, Kau selalu membantuku berdiri
Ketika aku menangis, Kau selalu menghapus kesedihanku

Siapalah aku ini?
Aku hanyalah manusia lemah
Aku hanyalah manusia yang tidak pandai bersyukur
Aku hanyalah manusia yang selalu saja mengeluh
Aku hanyalah manusia yang tidak pernah puas

Mungkinkah Kau akan selalu membantuku?
Mungkinkah Kau akan selalu ada untuk diriku?
Mungkinkah Kau akan selalu mengajarkan diriku?
Mungkinkah Kau akan selalu berbisik dan berkata, "Aku Sayang Denganmu"?

Tetaplah disisiku, tetaplah bersamaku, dan tetaplah disampingku
Akan selalu ku jaga Diri-Mu di hidupku
Akan selalu ku lindungi Diri-Mu di hatiku
Agar aku tidak akan pernah kehilangan Diri-Mu
Agar aku menjadi manusia beruntung karena telah dicintai oleh-Mu





love,
Sylvia

100 Sunnah Nabi Muhammad SAW

6:42 PM

Katakanlah: "Jika kamu (benar-benar) mencintai Allah, ikutilah aku (Muhammad), niscaya Allah mengasihi dan mengampuni dosa-dosamu". Allah Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang (Q.S Ali-Imran : 31)

"Ketahuilah, Bahwa Aku telah meninggalkan pada kalian suatu perkara, yang kalian tidak akan tersesat selamanya sepanjang kalian berpegang teguh dengannya, yaitu Kitab Allah 'Azza Wa Jalla" dan sunnah Nabi-Nya."
(Diriwayatkan oleh Al-Ajury, Al Hakim, Al-Baihaqy. Dihasakan oleh Syaikh Al-Albany dalam At0Tawassul dengan mengisyaratkan syahid baginya dalam Ash-Shahihah no. 1761)

1.          Tidur dalam keadaan wudhu;
2.     Membaca Surah Al-Ikhlas, Al-Falaq, dan An-Nas sebelum tidur;
3.     Takbir dan Tasbih ketika hendak tidur;
4.     Berdo'a ketika terbangun dari tidur pada waktu malam;
5.     Berdo'a ketika bangun tidur : 
Alhamdulillahil ladzi ahyana ba'da ma amatana wailaihin nusyur"
"Segala puji bagi Allah yang menghidupkan aku kembali setelah mematikan aku dan kepada Allah akan bangkit"
6.     Berkumur dan memasukkan air ke dalam hidung dari satu cidukan sebelah tangan;
7.     Berwudhu sebelum mandi;
8.     Membaca do’a selepas berwudhu;
9.     Cermat penggunaan air;
10.    Shalat 2 rakaat setelah berwudhu;
11.     Menjadwab seruan adzan
                Hayya Alal-Falaah => La Haula Wa La Quwata Illa Billaah..
12.     Perbanyak bersugi;
13.     Datang ke masjid lebih awal;
14.     Pergi ke masjid dengan berjalan kaki;
15.     Hadir shalat dengan tenang;
16.     Doa ketika masuk dan keluar masjid :
    Masuk “Allahumaf-tahlii abwaaba rahmatika”
    Keluar “Allahumma Inni As-asluka min Fadhlika”
17.      Sembahyang berhadang;
18.     Duduk atas 2 tumit yang didirikan ketika duduk antara 2 sujud;
19.     Duduk atas lantai dengan mendirikan kaki kanan ketika tahiyatul akhir;
20.    Perbanyak berdo’a setelah tahiyatul akhir dan sebelum salam;
21.     Melakukan shalat sunnah Rawatib:
           Ã˜     2 rakaat sebelum shalat Subuh (Qobliyah)
  Ø   2/4 rakaat sebelum shalat zuhur (Qobliyah)
  Ø   2 rakaat sesudah shalat zuhur (Ba’diyah)
  Ø   2 rakaat sesudah maghrib (Ba’diyah)
  Ø   2 rakaat sesudah Isya (Ba’diyah)
22.      Rutin melakukan shalat Dhuha;
23.      Qiiyamullail:
Ø   Shalat malam Tahajjud, Witir, Berdzikir, Istighfar, 
    Berdo’a
Ø   11/13 Rakaat;
Ø   Bersiwak dan membaca 10 ayat terakhir surat Ali-Imran;
Ø   Berdo’a
24.      Shalat Witir;
25.      Shalat dengan beralas kaki;
26.      Shalat di Masjid Quba;
27.      Shalat sunnah di rumah;
28.      Shalat Istikharah;
29.      Duduk di tempat shalat selepas subuh hingga terbit matahari;
30.      Mandi hari Jumat;
31.      Hadir lebih awal untuk shalat Jum’at;
32.      Mencari masa mustajab untuk berdo’a di Jum’at;
33.      Pergi dan balik shalat Ied dengan jalan yang berbeda;
34.      Shalat jenazah;
35.      Ziarah kubur;
36.      Sahur terlebih dahulu apabila berpuasa;
37.      Segeralah berbuka puasa jika memang sudah waktunya;
38.      Menghidupkan Ramadhan;
39.      Itikaf di bulan Ramadhan;
40.      Puasa sunah 6 hari dalam bulan Syawal;
41.      Puasa tiga hari setiap bulan;
42.      Puasa hari Arafah (1 hari sebelum Idul Adha);
43.      Puasa hari Asyura (puasa 10 Muharram);
44.      Apabila musafir, maka pilihlah seorang ketua;
45.      Takbir ketika melalui jalanan yang tinggi dan Tasbih ketika menuruni tempat yang rendah;
46.      Berdo’a ketika singgah di suatu tempat;
47.      Apabila musafir dan telah kembali, maka terlebih dahulu pergi ke Masjid;
48.      Berdo’a ketika memakai baju yang baru:
“Allahumma lakal hamdu anta kasawtaniihi as-aluka min khoirihi wa khoiri maa shuni’alah wa a’udzu bika min syarrihi wa syarri maa shuni’a lah”
49.      Memulai dengan kaki kanan apabila memang alas kaki;
50.      Membaca Bismillah ketika hendak makan;
51.       Mengucapkan Alhamdulillah selepas makan;
52.       Minum dalam keadaan duduk;
53.       Berkumur dengan susu;
54.       Tidak mencela makanan;
55.       Makan degan 3 jari tangan dan menjilat jari itu bila telah selesai;
56.       Minum dan berobat dengan air zam-zam;
57.       Sarapan sebelum Shalat Ied;
58.       Perbanyak membaca Al-Qur’an;
59.       Membaca Al-Qur’an dengan suara yang bagus;
60.       Zikir kepada Allah;
61.        Bertasbih;
62.        Mendo’akan orang yang bersin;
63.        Do’a untuk yang pesakit;
64.        Meletakkan tangan pada tempat sakit serta berdo’a;
65.        Berdo’a ketika mendengar ayam berkokok :
 “Mintalah karunia Allah (berdo’a) karena dia melihat Malaikat.”
66.        Berdo’a ketika hujan;
67.        Membaca dzikir ketika memasuki rumah;
68.        Membaca dzikir dalam Majelis;
69.        Berdo’a ketika masuk kamar mandi:
 Masuk  “Allahuma inni a’uzubika minal hubusi wal hobaiz.”
 Keluar “Alhamdulilla hil lazi azhaba anil aza wa aafani.”
70.       Berdo’a ketika angin bertiup;
71.        Berdo’a untuk muslimin yang tidak bersama;
72.        Berdo’a ketika mendapat musibah;
73.        Menyebarkan salam;
74.        Meminta izin sebelum masuk 3 kali;
75.        Tahnik mulut anak yang baru lahir = melumurkan buah kurma;
76.        Akikah-kan anak;
77.        Singkap sebagian badan agar kena hujan;
78.        Melawat pesakit;
79.        Senyum;
80.        Ziarah-menziarahi karena Allah;
81.         Nyatakan kecintaan bila mencintai seseorang;
82.        Tutup mulut bila menguap;
83.        Sangka baik terhadap sesame manusia;
84.        Membantu keluarga dalam pekerjaan rumah tangga;
85.        Sunnah Fitrah
 Ã˜     Khitan;
 Ã˜     Mencukur bulu kemaluan;
 Ã˜     Memotong kumis;
 Ã˜     Memotong kuku;
 Ã˜     Mencabut bulu ketiak;
 Ã˜     Bersiwak;
 Ã˜     Istinsyaq (menghirup air ke dalam hidung);
 Ã˜     Membasuh persendian;
 Ã˜     Mencebok dengan air;
86.      Menjaga anak yatim;
87.      Menjauhi kemarahan;
88.      Menangis karena takut sama Allah SWT;
89.      Bersedekah jariah;
90.      Membina Masjid;
91.       Toleransi dalam jual beli;
92.       Menghalangi gangguan di jalan;
93.       Sedekah;
94.       Perbanyak melakukan amal shaleh pada 10 Zulhijjah;
95.       Membunuh cicak;
96.       Larangan menceritakan semua cerita yang didengar;
97.       Memberi nafkah keluarga;
98.       Lari-lari semasa melakukan tawaf;
99.       Beramal shalah berterusan walaupun sedikit;
100.     Menjaga Wudhu karena Allah SWT menyayangi hamba-Nya yang menjaga  wudhunya.



Faith, Love, and Hope

11:18 PM

It has been 2 years, yes. 2 years I haven't wrote anything.
Well, everything has changed from my last post, from 2015 until now, 2017.
Wow, time flash really fast.

People changed. Situation changed. Life changed. Everything has changed.
In the last 2 years, my life changed so much. Not only because Allah SWT has granted my wishes, but also because I met interesting guy.
Did I just say "Interesting"? Of course, yes.
"Why did you say that? Didn't they just hurt your heart? What were you thinking?"
Some people asked me those question, and I'm sure, now you're one of them too, right?
If you know the story back then, I bet you'll agree with me. You'll say them "Interesting" too, just like I did. But, it's too bad because I can't tell you every details in here. I'll just tell you the summary of it, it doesn't matter, does it?
First, I met this guy. 
He was fine and nice, until I knew that it was just an act from him. It did matter at the beginning, but now? It doesn't matter anymore.
When we were close, so much close that people thought if we were together, he was really nice to me. He was even willing to wait in Ragunan, just to pick me up from the work, because I'm a Transjakarta's user. Then one day, I asked him about our relationship.
"What are we? Who am I to you?"
Why? Because every woman needs a certainty. He just said he hasn't ready yet. But, he was serious with me. So, yeah, I chose to wait for him.
And then, I prayed to Allah SWT, The Greatest. I did Tahajjud and asked Him to show me about this guy. I remember what Sheikh Yasir Qadhi said. He said :
 "If you want something in your life and you aren't praying Tahajjud for it then in reality, you don't really want it".
I did that twice in 2 night. And you know what did Allah SWT give to me in the morning after I prayed Tahajjud?
He gave me His Blessing. His Greatness, Allahu Akbar. 
He showed me everything. He lead me to the truth about that guy. He told me and opened my eyes about that guy. How? He showed me by our fought. Yes. we fought. We argued. I knew there was something wrong. I knew he was lying to me. He was just pretend to be a good nice guy.
And then, he just changed.
Yes, BECAUSE EVERYBODY WILL CHANGE AT THE END. 
He still didn't want to tell me. He just left. There weren't any words from him. Once again, he acted like he was nice and good for everyone.
He didn't take a long time to forget and get rid of me because he married with a girl who was his best friend. He told me that she was her best friend before. And I was believe to him at that time. It was my mistake. I know it.
And one day, I realized if he wasn't the best for me. Allah SWT knows the best for His people. He loves me too much. He hates when I love that guy more than Him.
That' why, you, we can't just lament our sadness. Allah SWT doesn't like that. We have to fight. We have to move on and let the past be the past.
Because, only you who can change that black hole into a beautiful rainbow.
Just believe Him. He never sleeps. He loves you, more than you can imagine. He wants you to be closer, closer, and closer to Him. He wants you to always be grateful for everything, for every gift that He has sent to you. 
Do you know the words of : "When there is a dark, there will be a light."
Yes.
I believe those words until that.
In the beginning of 2016, Allah SWT gave me what I want about my family, about my parents. And I'm so grateful until now. Alhamdulillah ya Allah. You are always kind to me, even I always do something bad. But, You're still there with me. 
When I look the past, I just feel I'm such a bad human. But, You are never tired to be with me, never tired to always be there for me, and never tired to remind me if I'm not in the right path.
And thank you Allah SWT, thank you for what have you done to my life. 
Thank you.
That's why I choose to wear a Hijab in the same of that year, 2016. All of friends of mine were shocked. They didn't believe it. They always ask me, what's wrong with you? Are you okay? Did something happen to you? 
Every person I met asked same questions.
But, you know what?
"You don't need any bad thing happen first to do "Hijjrah". What you have to do is just do what you believe. Don't think about anything else. Just do it with full of your faith and your hope. Your faith if you can be better and your hope if Allah SWT will always lead your way. InShaa Allah"

Do you know what I believe about His Greatness? 
"If you love Him, He will loves you. If you want Him to be closer to you, He won't go anywhere. He will stay with you. But, if you forget Him,  He will touch your heart with His Blessing, not just do like you do to Him. He will tell you that He misses you. 
and I believe, that's His Blessing for our lives."
So, if you want to change yourself in a good ways, do not wait until tomorrow. Do not let the past haunt you. Just say : Dear past, thank you for your help. I can be like today because of you. I know this world because of you. Once again, thank you.
Forget the past, live today, and hope for tomorrow. There will be a hope if you want it. I think its the perfect quotes.
and don't forget Allah SWT will always be with you.
"If Allah SWT hasn't answered your prays yet, do not lose your faith. When we pray, Allah hears more than we say, answers more than we ask, gives more than we imagine, in His own time and in His own way."

I hope Allah SWT will always be in our life. And I hope we can always be a better person, not for all people, but do it for your Creator, yourself, for your Family, and also the people you love.
Hope Jannah will be our real and last home.
Aamiin Ya Rabbal Alamin..



xoxo,
Sylvia